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|Summary of Question:||Problem Geting Married|
|Date Posted:||Saturday, 10/31/2009 10:46 AM MDT|
Sopurkhs are in the Rahras Sahib. Starting with words: So Purakh Nirianjan Har Purakh Niranjan, Har agama agam apara.... . Ending with a line : Jan Nanak gun gavai karte ke ji, jo sabhasai ka janoi. Generally SoPurkhs are used for elevation of man and are recited for at least 40 days 11 times a day when you are having problems with men in your life. You can include up to three men per 11 recitations a day. You can even do it for your father or a brother.
Some ladies who really wanted to get married did them for 2.5 hours a day for 40 days and were very successful in finding the right husband. It seems to be a very powerful meditation for that purpose. If you want to do it that way than make sure to concentrate on breaking through all the blocks that are in your way by visualizing yourself happily married with a wonderful man by your side.
I personally would do it a little different... and that is very individual for everyone. I don't have 2.5 hours every day to do it so I would start by doing Sopurkhs 11 times. Than maybe doing Dhan Dhan Ram Das Guru for 11 times for miracles and Gobinde Mukande Udare Apare Hariang Kariang Nirname Akame also 11 times to remove all the blocks on my road to happiness. Also doing Shabad Hazare that starts with Mera Man Lochai after all the recitations even just once is said to multiply the effects of your efforts by 1000 times.
It is all up to you. Use your intuition to figure out what is the best way to proceed. You can also purchase all of those mantras and shabads on CDs from Spirit Voyage or Ancient Healing Ways. If you have a couple of CD players at home play the music 27/7. You can lower it at night to a minimum sound and it will still work to help you create the right vibrations in your home to facilitate the process. It is so much nicer to recite all of these together with music.
There are very many ways of achieving what you want if you are willing to put some effort into it. It is essential to be very consistent and go through with your commitment for at least 40 days. If you feel that your problems in this matter are more serious continue doing it for 90 to 120 days.
Working on opening yourself up to receiving the blessings is another important step. If you are not allowing for new things to enter your life that can be a serious aspect to work on as well within yourself.
Please remember that anything is possible but nothing is guaranteed. If a man enters your life and he is not all that you expected evaluate things very carefully and figure out if you would be able to deal with challenges that the situation may present. Ask yourself if you have the courage and the skills to work it out before making any serious decisions that will effect the rest of your life.
I wish you all the best.