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Summary of Question:Relationship
Category:Love & Marriage
Date Posted:Sunday, 9/04/2011 4:26 PM MDT

Wjkk wjkf ji! I am not sure whether my question has any relevance but after i read a few answers from this app i felt the urge to ask. I am engaged and this was arranged through our families. I am now worried & in doubt that my fiance has friends who are girls. The problem is that it seems like that he more than a friend to them. Both of us are amritdhari but he thinks its ok to make friends as girls. I cannot check or find out in any way whether what i'm thinking has any truth in it because he lives in india & i live in the uk. I feel he is using me. I only have one hope and that is of Waheguru ji. Could you please suggest something that i should to or how to handle this situation. I would be very grateful and thankful. Waheguru ji ka khalsa waheguru ji ki fateh ji

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Dear one, you need to meet together and discuss your concerns with you fiance.
I think it is important to know WHO you are marrying. Also, you can do some detective
work and have your family alliances in India observe the character of this boy. Someone
suggested this alliance. So make some conditions for the marriage....like...before marrying
he has to come to UK and live and contain himself and prove his goodness.

You do have reason for concern if you have not met and your intuition is telling you to be careful.
Follow this intuition and recite bhand Jamee-ai shabd daily to protect yourself......SK



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